Refuge Farms (www.refugefarms.org)

In the day to day world as we immerse ourselves in the buzz of humanity to live the path in life we have chosen we must deal with people and situations that are likely to be stressful. We are expected to contribute and respond in politically correct ways. Those that do not respond as required are troublemakers or outcasts. We are constantly living in the parameters of "what" is acceptable. Many of our choices are based on this boundary we have established for ourselves as acceptable.

My experience at Refuge Farms is that the "Refuge" part is for the people. Sure the horses come here and are cared for, live happy lives, live the "Refuge Farms Promises". The people who visit though find an unexpected acceptance of whomever they are or happen to be at the moment. Sadness is accepted. Stressed is accepted, and anger is accepted. There are both the 4 legged and the 2 legged to listen. Talking or just feeling "in the moment" is very therapeutic. This is a place where a crippled horse is accepted as a crippled horse. He is not made to "look" good or "perform" beyond his ability. People are accepted in the same fashion. Who is to say what a crippled human is worth? Who is to say that they don't teach immeasurable truths to those who know how to listen to and observe them. We teach each other.

You can give of your talents as you choose. There is a need for all manner of contribution. The acceptance of who you are today, what you need, what you wish to give, and receive, are the important parts of Refuge Farms. It is a Refuge and Haven for all who need. In helping each other we support and help ourselves. We leave with a connectedness and strength in numbers.

Horses live in herds. There is a strength in being with like minded individuals who can work together creating stability and protection for each and for all. It is called Refuge.

Gayle